Can we really change a person?

A new thought creates a whole feeling and whole new future...

We could replace this thought with  “They shouldn’t call more often”. We work on the assumption that if this what’s happening, this is exactly as its meant to be. We practice the timeless art of non-resistance .It’s not passivity or being a doormat, its just not fighting things we can’t control .It one of the most simple, yet profound and difficult things to implement.

The power of surrending…

We work with the fact if they are not calling there is good reason for this, that out of this reality there something positive and meaningful to be gain. We also recognise that the part of us that “wants what we want” is often this selfish voice that’s not truly considering how the other person feels or wants .If they are not calling they obviously have their reasons. By not fighting we are also respecting the right  that person has to make their own choices.

“I want you” is more relaxed then “I need you”..

Of course if they suddenly decide to call, then we have the right ourselves to respond in whatever way we feel appropriate. In my experience as a psychic, people are more intuitive than what we give them credit for .Even though you may try to mask or cover up the pushy part of us that wants them to do what we want, often people feel it and more often or not keep a distance .In an unspoken way they are saying  “Don’t make me responsible for how you feel” .As we let go and nurture a feeling of wholeness that come from our own personal contentment ,then the situation that previously seems difficult and a struggle now starts to fall into place more effortlessly.

Freedom from anyone having to be or do anything

Although romantic attachments  is a more obvious process, it applies  equally to all of our relationships, with children , parents, friends, colleagues or siblings .Anytime we find ourselves willing others to be different to adjust a discomfort in ourselves, we have this wonderful window to deepen our own peacefulness .So try watch and wait for the next time you feel this pull and just practice, turning the thought around, shifting your perspective and I have no doubt you will unlock a magic  feeling  that’s truly liberating.