Can a person sense if I am needy?

You are on call 24/7. When you like someone, it’s totally ok to make them feel special and needed. This includes making some adjustments to your schedule, in order to include them. But watch out not to go overboard with that. If you are too available, they will think that you are so desperate that you will drop everything at their call. If you were supposed to go to a friend’s birthday, and they call you, so you cancel on your friend, you might wonder if you are not too needy. Don’t be afraid to say you have other plans. This might even be a good thing. It shows that they are not the center of your universe, and that they have to earn that important part in your life.

These are some of the things that can make you look “needy”. Ask yourself if you are doing these mistakes and try to fix them. I’m all for showing love and attention, making that person feel special and needed. But moderation is the key. If we give them all on a silver platter, what will they have to fight for?

Written by our Guest writer :Irina